James Sexton
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1,499 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Aug 2026
last heard 17 Aug
James Sexton’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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But I think when you're breaking up with someone, there's no way to say it that they're gonna feel good about it.
So you have to just sort of reject that possibility from minute one and then just be very clear.
Because if you say, you know, I've been thinking that maybe we should okay, you're already screwing this up.
Like maybe
Implies that, but maybe not.
Like I think it turns into I've given this some careful thought, and I think this relationship needs to end.
Like that's clear.
It feels harsh, but what you're losing in terms of the softness, you're gaining a lot in terms of clarity.
So I think clarity is really important.
Com I would say compassionate clarity should be the mantra, which is you're you're not like take your share of the blame.
Don't put it on this person, you know, but also don't try to be so compassionate.
that you're no longer clear about what it is.
I've been thinking maybe we should have some time.
No.
Like if you've decided this relationship is over, I've come to a place where this relationship no longer makes sense for me.
And I feel like we need to end it.
Sure.
in an app.
Yeah, so in every state, spousal support, alimony, maintenance is three words for the same thing.
Every state uses a different term.
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