James Sexton

Do you feel as if, because you've gone through a divorce amicably,

that that gives you additional perspective when it comes to your work.

Okay, got you.

But do you ever struggle with the type of person?

Because I would imagine that there are people coming to you who might have conducted sexual assault or abuse.

And obviously they're telling you everything.

You're aware of it all.

Do you ever struggle with representing them?

However, we know because of the Gottmans, right?

And these other researchers that most of us are not happy, low satisfaction in our marriages.

So if we are in a relationship and we feel as if there's low satisfaction, how do we determine if we should be divorced or just simply work on the satisfaction?

Absolutely.

You could be 15 years in your relationship and be completely shocked.

Absolutely.

I remember talking to someone, this is the Gottmans as well, they were saying how the six minute, in essence, they were talking about how long a kiss should be.

I remember talking to people saying, hey, you know, they're saying, you should actually kiss for six minutes, you should kiss six times, et cetera.

They said, a lot of the guys would say, Paul, I just don't have the time.

I don't have the time to do it.

And this goes to that question of if you have a partner and you feel as if that has slipped.

Yeah.