James Sexton

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5,249 appearances 6 recordings 5 series first heard Jan 2026 last heard 5 May

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TRIGGERnometry · How Not To Ruin Your Marriage - World's Leading Divorce Expert - James Sexton · 22 Feb 2026 podcast

So I think there are tremendous... And I think, again, men and women maybe process those things differently.

I've always said that in my experience, when a man...

and a woman find out that their partner has cheated, they ask different questions.

A man's first question is, did you sleep with him?

And a woman's first question is, do you love her?

And I've always said that says something about how we interpret love in heterosexual relationships.

so infidelity is kind of the final symptom anything else financial impropriety is a big piece i think dishonesty and betrayal i mean they're really all forms of betrayal you know i i think financial betrayal is a big piece what does that look like what does that mean where someone has been incurring massive amounts of debts and not letting their spouse know it where someone has entrusted to their spouse

Usually a woman entrusting to a man that, you know, that you're a good provider and you're maintaining a financial stability for her and for the children.

And in fact, it turns out it was a house of cards and you weren't being honest about that.

Sometimes it goes the other way where you have a man who, you know, his wife has a spending issue and she's been dishonest about it.

And suddenly she turns around and says, yeah, I've incurred several hundred thousand dollars worth of debt.

And now, you know, he's the breadwinner, so he's the one who's going to be responsible for dealing with it.

So those kinds of betrayals are, you know, they're not the same as a sexual impropriety, but it's similar in the sense that, you know, I thought we had an agreement.

I thought we were going to be honest with each other about this particular thing, and we're not.

Yeah, yeah.

Is there any truth to any of this?

Yeah, I mean, you know, there was often talk of what was called the seven-year itch, you know, that after seven years and invariables of seven, you know, so seven-year, 14-year, there was some...

you know, luster of the marriage gets lost.

And I think there's something to that.

I think it's tied to life stages.

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