Jared Freed

Yeah, you go, what are you doing here?

Right.

Why do you need to be here?

Right.

DJ kind of extends the shelf life.

Yes.

Why I have to be here for work is different than, I just like going out to the sloppy tuna.

It doesn't exist anymore.

It doesn't exist anymore.

I'm happy to not know the places you go.

If I knew at 41 the hot spots in Montauk, I would sound like a loser.

There's a point.

Right, to get out of being a loser.

If your act is about dating until you're in your 50s, what are you doing?

Is that why you got a girlfriend?

That's exactly why, for my career.

well yeah just look at like the dad trope is real is there for a reason like at some point you gotta fall to the back and be the dad who just gets people to the airport early you know like you're not the show you know like it's just how it works right and you go well why won't men commit well I don't wanna just dissolve into nothing so it's like it's a real fear you know yeah

but there's a lot of comfort in that too like I kind of like being in a relationship I'm like excited for the dad of it all yeah again I think continuously doing the same thing over and over again is what feels loser-y so it's like any sort of

Right.

And, but it is funny in this email, I kind of hear the guy who is trying to make a career and knows that his value is seen in his career dealing with the email or the woman who's 21, who's trying to be a nurturer and a caregiver.