Jared Freed

The beautiful part of when it works out is that they are kind of intertwined in a way that they grew up together.

If they grow the same.

Again, this is two people trying to grow in different directions.

Right.

And this won't be as surprising or also accusatory right now.

It's accusatory because he's just like, I just want to grow up and be a man.

I want to be self-sufficient.

I want to work hard.

And all I care about is getting to a place where I can feel

worth and value because I can provide.

This to me is gendered.

You know, like, cause she's like, I just want a home and make you feel good and make us feel like a couple, like the way she wrote this email is beautiful.

No one could deny it.

And someone could look at him and go,

You're just giving up someone who's willing to make you and your pursuits part of their life.

But at 21, you're supposed to be allowed to do that.

Right.

I just think, you know, she's probably leaning on the idea of like, you know, if you get it, especially at that age, what is good is right.

You know, like it's everything's a little more simple.

I'm married.