Jared Freed

You have to figure out how you've already grown and making those things kind of intertwine.

You have to take two paths.

two trees that have grown on their own right and try and squish them together a little bit or kind of like figure out how you you can make changes you know is that why some men would date like are likely to date younger women they can mold someone to their own lifestyle right or the woman at that age is willing to follow them on a lifestyle that's already built yeah that's why a lot of younger women like an older guy there's no no chances taken

Right.

I mean, Emily's younger, but I don't feel that.

How old is she?

What is she, like 22?

No, she's 32.

Okay, yeah, that's younger.

But like younger, but like, you know, right.

And there's an element of like, at 32...

Is your life in a different space than 41, of course?

Totally.

I really do believe, and this isn't a hot take.

I think we talked about it before.

Female 30 is male 40.

And vice versa.

So there are things that we are both ready for.

right that you wouldn't have been ready for at 32 no not even a little right I wasn't ready at 38 you know yeah but I don't know it's uh and and like changing my life now to like have someone else be involved in it like that is somewhat easier you know and change and I don't think it was as easy a couple years ago but it's also like going through like you know did you like doing things on your own you know

Did you enjoy those things, experiencing those things alone?