Jason Wilson
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267 appearances
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2 series
first heard Jan 2025
last heard 25 Dec
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But no, man, I don't, I don't, there is, I believe all of us, though, have moments where we feel that we're not good enough, you know, like, man, how am I going to do this, like, public speaking or whatever it is. It's just like, But I put all that aside, man, and moved through it. And then again, leaning on those memories of what happened when I allowed myself to be transparent. It worked out.
I never thought I would have cried ever in front of Nicole, my wife. But it's amazing how she respects me so much more that she can see the comprehensiveness in who I am as a man and to see I embody all of the characteristics and even more. It shows her that, man, you know. It gives her the freedom to be scared. It gives her the freedom to not be okay.
To know that, wait a minute, my husband does it and he makes this.
Yes, absolutely.
First and foremost, I would say to them what my wife would tell them. Make a decision. What do you really want? Do you want this man who provides and protects, don't show you the other side of his life, and then you find out what was really going on, planning his funeral? Or do you want a man who can be emotionally open with you?
And in the process, you're able to be emotionally open with him because now he has a capacity to receive it. Do you want a partner in life or just a performer? So once you make that decision, now we can move forward. It's going to be difficult because, again, you weren't trained this way.
But every daughter sees sides in their father like, man, I wish he would have done this because he would be much healthier where he is today. Do you want your husband when he can't be strong, when he can't provide as much to feel like I might as well just die?
Mm-hmm.
Or would you rather have had a husband who found his worth in who he is instead of what he does so that when he becomes an elder, he enjoys that stage of his life? Right. And so once they make the decision, understand it's going to be work just like the marriage.
But on the other side, to have a man who can sit there, table everything he's thinking about and lock in with you because he knows it's important to hear your heart. If you make the right decision, it'll literally transform your marriage, your life, and your children's future.
That's a very good question. One young lady who's married, I was talking with, been through a lot of abuse growing up. Father pretty much disowned her. That's the ultimate for a daughter. And then form of infidelity in the marriage, or I would say adultery. At that point in her life, it was just like, I'm done with this. And I simply asked her, I said, where is your identity?
Again, back to where it started, this conversation. Is it your identity as a daughter? Is it your identity as a wife? Or is it your identity as your daughter in God? Which one is the most important? What are roles? Which one is your identity? And I get emotional because when she realized that her identity was different from a role, she found value.
My role as a father, as a husband, teacher, mentor. Those are my roles. My identity is in the one who created it. Can't be shaken there. Once you find that and make that your foundation, people will always disappoint you. My wife, before we met, she was not in a good relationship, was done with men. I had to really pursue her. She gave love another try and look what happened.
So I would tell every woman who was going through that, trying to shake that mentality is really research and take time to find out who you really are and what your identity really is. That way it can't be shaken.
Yes.
We cut off branches. That's what I talk about. But branches grow back.
Or we put on a mask. Oh, yeah, for sure. And so instead of keep cutting off the branches, uproot the tree and move it to a different environment so that it can thrive and grow. It can heal. Absolutely, yes.
That's really good. I never thought about that, brother, just for women to see what type of characteristics they should have in a man. And, you know, I tell men all the time, I wrote it for men who are tired of being the wrong men in the moment. And we all blow it as fathers, leaders, as sons trying to care for your parents who are aging.
Yes. And I want to close with this. I commend you, man. I'm really proud of you. Marriage, just everything I know. Just some things that we've talked about and which they don't need to know. But I just want to thank you just for being authentic, man, and just really moving in, following your heart, brother. Thank you. And I see it, especially after your father passed and just –
I recognize that in you, man. I just want to commend you for being authentic, man, and following the good in your heart instead of your fears, man. Just everything, the home, just everything I see you're doing, man, I just want to commend you. And it's very inspirational to me. And I don't know if you know that, but I want to tell you that you inspired me to step even further out of
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