Jay Shetty

Yes.

It's remarkable.

It's remarkable.

It's a word.

Yeah, it's very English.

That's huge.

There's something you said today that really struck me.

I was saying that

Everyone's been through hard things.

And the way you flip that really powerfully and it was subtle was that, but it's how you feel about how you got through those hard things that define how they impact you.

And that is so true and powerful.

Like that really, really hit me and resonated with me.

I don't think I've heard it being said like that before because it's

Like you said, you talked about your parents' divorce and even though it was amicable and you had a loving family, your take was what else could I have done?

So even though you've been through a hard thing, you see it as your fault in some way, or you see it as something you could have done better.

And therefore thinking about that hard thing and getting through it doesn't make you feel stronger.

It makes you feel weak and insignificant and whatever else you would use to describe yourself because

Your memory of it and your story of it is, I failed.

Your story of it isn't, I'm still alive and I still survived and I'm still good.

And that is magnificent as a case study because that's why people's difficult times don't inspire them.