Jefferson Fisher
speaker
235 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 24 Aug
Jefferson Fisher’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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One would be they make up the conversation in their head before they actually have it, meaning they've already anticipated your response.
So they're they're thinking about the conversation while they're driving into work, while they're brushing their teeth, and as soon as the other person doesn't say what they thought they were going to say, it it cancels it because they thought the whole thing was gonna be scripted.
They they started driving without knowing where they wanted to go.
So without having a goal in mind is the sure way that you're not going to get
There.
Number two, they rush.
So they're gonna get very quick, get very reactive in the way they're gonna communicate.
They they feel like the faster the conversation is somehow the better.
It's the exact opposite.
Much better to say, hey, I'm gonna have a conversation with you over the next few weeks.
You're gonna release the pressure valve on that moment.
And three, turn statements into questions.
Usually they're very accusatory, very direct.
Accus accusations.
Instead, it's much better to turn that statement into a question and you're gonna get a whole lot more.
Because our nervous system is meant to protect us and and we're gonna get defensive.
So you telling me something, I'm gonna interpret it usually in the the worst way possible.
So you might say something and my interpretation of is, oh, you're mad at me.
How many times in the work context somebody goes, Oh, I I thought you were upset with me and all you did was say thanks with no period.
You know what I mean?
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