Jefferson Fisher

you can say okay this is how i'm feeling here's this card here's this card here's this card the other people the person you're talking to will also naturally say well this is what i'm feeling and this is what i'm feeling and this is what i'm feeling and they start to lay their cards i'm not saying you need to divulge your secrets no i'm not saying you need to just be a complete waterfall of information no in fact if you know that you follow my content

you can say okay this is how i'm feeling here's this card here's this card here's this card the other people the person you're talking to will also naturally say well this is what i'm feeling and this is what i'm feeling and this is what i'm feeling and they start to lay their cards i'm not saying you need to divulge your secrets no i'm not saying you need to just be a complete waterfall of information no in fact if you know that you follow my content

you can say okay this is how i'm feeling here's this card here's this card here's this card the other people the person you're talking to will also naturally say well this is what i'm feeling and this is what i'm feeling and this is what i'm feeling and they start to lay their cards i'm not saying you need to divulge your secrets no i'm not saying you need to just be a complete waterfall of information no in fact if you know that you follow my content

that I suggest don't be a waterfall of information. You be a well, something to where if how you're feeling, you share it one at a time, one at a time. So what does that sound like? Me making sure that I'm sharing my cards. I teach that if you claim it out loud, you control it. And I say that because it's true.

that I suggest don't be a waterfall of information. You be a well, something to where if how you're feeling, you share it one at a time, one at a time. So what does that sound like? Me making sure that I'm sharing my cards. I teach that if you claim it out loud, you control it. And I say that because it's true.

that I suggest don't be a waterfall of information. You be a well, something to where if how you're feeling, you share it one at a time, one at a time. So what does that sound like? Me making sure that I'm sharing my cards. I teach that if you claim it out loud, you control it. And I say that because it's true.

We talked about this in the membership, and I love talking about it now, and I'm going to have a story for you in a second. This is what it sounds like. When you say, I can tell. I can tell. That means when you go into this nervous conversation, I want you to think in your mind. This will be helpful. Think in your mind right now.

We talked about this in the membership, and I love talking about it now, and I'm going to have a story for you in a second. This is what it sounds like. When you say, I can tell. I can tell. That means when you go into this nervous conversation, I want you to think in your mind. This will be helpful. Think in your mind right now.

We talked about this in the membership, and I love talking about it now, and I'm going to have a story for you in a second. This is what it sounds like. When you say, I can tell. I can tell. That means when you go into this nervous conversation, I want you to think in your mind. This will be helpful. Think in your mind right now.

Maybe you're walking on a treadmill, you're driving, wherever you are. Think in your mind of a time you've been nervous before a conversation. Heck, I'm guessing, maybe, just maybe, you're listening to this because you're feeling nervous about a conversation coming up right now. And if that's true, this is what I want you to do.

Maybe you're walking on a treadmill, you're driving, wherever you are. Think in your mind of a time you've been nervous before a conversation. Heck, I'm guessing, maybe, just maybe, you're listening to this because you're feeling nervous about a conversation coming up right now. And if that's true, this is what I want you to do.

Maybe you're walking on a treadmill, you're driving, wherever you are. Think in your mind of a time you've been nervous before a conversation. Heck, I'm guessing, maybe, just maybe, you're listening to this because you're feeling nervous about a conversation coming up right now. And if that's true, this is what I want you to do.

As soon as you sit down for this conversation, or maybe it's on a phone call, or maybe it's a text, I prefer it not be, but if it's a phone call or a meeting someone, begin with this phrase. I want you to say, I can tell blank. I can tell I'm feeling blank. It's what it sounds like even more. I can tell I'm nervous talking about this. I can tell I'm feeling upset. I can tell I'm feeling anxious.

As soon as you sit down for this conversation, or maybe it's on a phone call, or maybe it's a text, I prefer it not be, but if it's a phone call or a meeting someone, begin with this phrase. I want you to say, I can tell blank. I can tell I'm feeling blank. It's what it sounds like even more. I can tell I'm nervous talking about this. I can tell I'm feeling upset. I can tell I'm feeling anxious.

As soon as you sit down for this conversation, or maybe it's on a phone call, or maybe it's a text, I prefer it not be, but if it's a phone call or a meeting someone, begin with this phrase. I want you to say, I can tell blank. I can tell I'm feeling blank. It's what it sounds like even more. I can tell I'm nervous talking about this. I can tell I'm feeling upset. I can tell I'm feeling anxious.

I can tell I'm feeling unsteady. I can tell I'm feeling distant. You see how you're saying what you're feeling rather than acting upon what you're feeling. And that gives you the power to control it. It does two things. One, it gives you the power to control it, meaning you get it out and the other person knows about it. You're showing that card. They're going to show their card.

I can tell I'm feeling unsteady. I can tell I'm feeling distant. You see how you're saying what you're feeling rather than acting upon what you're feeling. And that gives you the power to control it. It does two things. One, it gives you the power to control it, meaning you get it out and the other person knows about it. You're showing that card. They're going to show their card.

I can tell I'm feeling unsteady. I can tell I'm feeling distant. You see how you're saying what you're feeling rather than acting upon what you're feeling. And that gives you the power to control it. It does two things. One, it gives you the power to control it, meaning you get it out and the other person knows about it. You're showing that card. They're going to show their card.

And you feel like you have a little bit more control over the conversation because you said it. There's a difference between me saying, let's say I'm feeling defensive about a situation, and all of a sudden I just go, that's not true. That's not what I mean. Wait, wait, wait. You think that, and I start getting defensive. That's me acting on it. True power says... I can tell I'm getting defensive.

And you feel like you have a little bit more control over the conversation because you said it. There's a difference between me saying, let's say I'm feeling defensive about a situation, and all of a sudden I just go, that's not true. That's not what I mean. Wait, wait, wait. You think that, and I start getting defensive. That's me acting on it. True power says... I can tell I'm getting defensive.