Jefferson Fisher

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You talk about three types of conversations that people could be in, really at any given time. And that to me, when I read it, was going, oh, that's really cool. And kind of breaking it up into, I'm very visual. Like anytime you're in a conversation, you have like a yellow wire, a blue wire, and a green wire. And you never really know which one to pull.

You talk about three types of conversations that people could be in, really at any given time. And that to me, when I read it, was going, oh, that's really cool. And kind of breaking it up into, I'm very visual. Like anytime you're in a conversation, you have like a yellow wire, a blue wire, and a green wire. And you never really know which one to pull.

You talk about three types of conversations that people could be in, really at any given time. And that to me, when I read it, was going, oh, that's really cool. And kind of breaking it up into, I'm very visual. Like anytime you're in a conversation, you have like a yellow wire, a blue wire, and a green wire. And you never really know which one to pull.

And what you do so well is you synthesize these and to say, hey, really, anytime you're in a conversation, you're in one of these three boxes. Can you tell us about that?

And what you do so well is you synthesize these and to say, hey, really, anytime you're in a conversation, you're in one of these three boxes. Can you tell us about that?

And what you do so well is you synthesize these and to say, hey, really, anytime you're in a conversation, you're in one of these three boxes. Can you tell us about that?

Yeah. That's where somebody says, you're not listening to me. Yes, I am.

Yeah. That's where somebody says, you're not listening to me. Yes, I am.

Yeah. That's where somebody says, you're not listening to me. Yes, I am.

Yeah. I find that in those moments,

Yeah. I find that in those moments,

Yeah. I find that in those moments,

it's um the person is not looking for reciprocal words they're looking for reciprocal feeling if you're having that emotional conversation when you're complaining about your day you're looking for a feeling from that other person the the acknowledgement words don't do it words don't give it it's the emotion the feeling that you go okay now we've connected the your white wire with my white wire and now i now we're connected

it's um the person is not looking for reciprocal words they're looking for reciprocal feeling if you're having that emotional conversation when you're complaining about your day you're looking for a feeling from that other person the the acknowledgement words don't do it words don't give it it's the emotion the feeling that you go okay now we've connected the your white wire with my white wire and now i now we're connected

it's um the person is not looking for reciprocal words they're looking for reciprocal feeling if you're having that emotional conversation when you're complaining about your day you're looking for a feeling from that other person the the acknowledgement words don't do it words don't give it it's the emotion the feeling that you go okay now we've connected the your white wire with my white wire and now i now we're connected