Jemma Spike

And I think that if you want to continue to learn from those experiences or continue to have the lessons that you are learning,

One of the easiest ways to do that is to have some kind of physical reminder of who you were during this time for you to kind of like bring forward with you into the next chapters of your life.

So if you haven't started yet, start documenting your 20s now.

Number seven, throw yourself deeply into love.

even if the possibility of heartbreak is absolutely terrifying.

There's all these dating narratives online that I think can honestly make love very, very confusing.

Articles that go viral about like, is having a boyfriend embarrassing?

Why should you be dating three people at once?

Who pays the bill?

What does double texting say about me?

How many months before I soft launch?

How many months before I hard launch?

All these attempts to create rules around love to make it safer.

And it just means that I think we overthink it too much.

Sometimes you just got to do it the old fashioned way.

Sometimes the best thing you can do for your personal development and for your self improvement is to just be like stupidly in love with somebody and just to fall ridiculously hard, even if you get hurt.

And you know what?

I can already hear a lot of naysayers on the other end of this being like, that is terrible advice.

That's how people get hurt.

I don't know what's wrong.