Jessamyn
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169 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Feb 2025
Jessamyn’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I think it's, you know, it's much more accepted now than maybe it was like 10 years ago, but all the different dating apps that we have, the way that you are like prompted to design your profile and to like put information about yourself out there, like you should, if you need to maximize that, you need to take advantage of the fact that like, this is the first impression that you're making and this is how you're doing it.
It's great being people in public too and organically through friends, whatever, but Um, but online dating and setting up this profile, it's your time to show off exactly like who you are, what those things are that you really want people to know. And then when you get to the first, second date points, it's like we have this whole, we have all this information already that we're using.
It was very easy. I'm someone who likes quick humor, dry humor, and you had that same sense of humor. So you set me up and I set you up and it was just like a very easy conversation. I didn't feel like I was... Trying to like find the right or wrong thing to say or felt like I had to keep the conversation going.
We literally just talked for a couple of days, kind of back and forth, made a few jokes. You know, it was it was just very easy. Sometimes you chat with guys or you're having a conversation on the app or texting leading up to it. And it's hard to communicate a lot of things over text. It can be really hard to communicate your sense of humor, your genuinity, whatever, over text.
But being able to have that easy flow, that definitely stood out.
I mean, my go-to would be the T-Rex.
Yeah, T-Rex. Oh, and pterodactyls.
Also because I could show off that I could spell pterodactyl.
Yeah.
Yeah, I remember just, like I said, it was very easy. I mean, a big piece of it is like, you know, if your sense of humor matches with the other person or if your interests match with the other person, that's kind of key. If it doesn't match, then it's probably not going to be a good conversation.
So if you feel like you're not struggling to find the right words to say, you feel like, you know, you're not like worrying about, is this going to be, is she going to take this the wrong way or... is she going to think I'm weird? Like you, you shouldn't be having those kinds of apprehensions if it's a good, genuine connection and a good conversation.
Um, yeah, I, I, I remember, I just remember feeling like, okay, this is a person that even though we still haven't actually heard each other, we hadn't talked in person yet. I was like, I know this is going to be an easy conversation. I know I don't have anything to worry about, you know, as of right now. Um, it just, it felt really good.
And like I said, too, it was my first time kind of on the app and a really long time talking to anybody. Um, so it just, it felt really good to kind of be back in a groove and be excited about meeting new people again.
Yeah. I think too, like you can, you can take dating seriously. You can take other people seriously, women seriously, but you don't want to be serious about it. you know, like it should be light. It should be fun. It shouldn't be immediate, like heavy conversations.
Um, if you find that you're like immediately going into setting boundaries or things just aren't flowing in a way that's like, am I actually going to enjoy being with this person? Then just, it helps to take a step back and say like, really evaluate your expectations and make sure that you're finding that balance between like, this is unexpected, but is it good or bad?
Yeah, the standard, you know, how's your day going? Maybe you like match the day before and he follows up with like, you know, how's your Monday? They're not, it's not like a deal breaker. I think those kinds of questions are fine, but they definitely don't stand out.
Um, along with kind of the idea of asking questions, you don't want to fall into like the interview of like you just asking her questions over and over again. Like she knows you're interested. You don't need to show that you're interested by only asking questions. You can share things about yourself. If you're going to ask questions, make them interesting.
Like I think you had, I don't remember exactly what they were, but there were a couple of times where you said like, you know, It was like, if you were going to cook for me, what would you make? Because I mentioned something about cooking on my profile. Again, just really leaning into what you're able to see about her. You can use those as conversation starters, as questions. Yeah.
I do remember that photo. I think that was like, that was before, that was like the day of our third date. That was a little bit later. And yeah, it was a, it was a SAS class video shoot and it was, the song was, um,
s&m it was the rihanna and britney spears remix okay um and it was just like a funny photo that someone had taken while we were filming that was just completely out of context and looked completely insane so i was like hey so this is what i did today see you later yeah because you know i dance and like dance and so whatever um i just thought that one photo was like particularly funny
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