Jessica Lahey
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877 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Dec 2017
last heard Apr 2021
Jessica Lahey’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Well, what did your friend do that you didn't do?
Have you talked to the teacher to see what you could change about the next time you do this?
Um if you did well, what that's interesting, what are you gonna take away from this as a successful part of what you did?
You know, schools these days are so incredibly focused on the product, the grade, the score, the points.
that we tend to lose sight of the process.
And the process is really focusing on process is really what's key in helping all kids sort of back off from their need for every tiny detail to be perfect all the time.
It's a way for backing off on anxiety and stress and
really getting back to what's important, which is supposed to be about the learning process to begin with.
So process over product and take a cold hard look at whether or not you're slightly underestimating your child.
And we I think we all tend to do it as our kids get bigger.
It's hard to see them not needing us as much.
And even if we're desperate for them to not need us as much.
There are certain things I still kind of sort of want my kid to need me for.
Especially since my youngest is, you know, getting to the point where he doesn't need me as much anymore.
And it's nice to be needed.
I I like that.
But I also want him to find his competence and especially in the areas where he's particularly weak.
And so it's been incredibly gratifying
For me anyway, to see that these places where he had huge deficits are slowly
becoming huge areas of pride for him.
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