Jessica Lanyadoo

Direct sentences are fine with him.

He's used to being managed.

He's used to being told where to go and how to get there.

Like it doesn't, it doesn't like hurt his ego.

It doesn't make him feel harmed.

You hate it when people do it to you, but that's not his issue.

So when we give other people what we need,

This is another thing you learned from your mom.

She gave you what she wished she got.

She didn't give you what you needed.

So this is, you can see yourself becoming this and you don't want to be this.

So conversely, being more selfish, asking for more, saying your needs out loud more is the way to not be selfish in this way.

Fucking hard.

It's so hard, but it's also not that hard.

It's really difficult, but it's not complicated, right?

And so it's a practice and it's a practice you will fail at.

I want to just give you that expectation so that you're not perfectionistic with it because every single time you fail and you stay with the practice, you succeed times 10.

I love that.

Yeah.

That's the thing.