Jessica Mizzi

So is this like a...

Are we saying this to protect our ego?

Yeah.

And to protect that feeling of the failure?

Which is what I do all the time.

yeah it's protecting ourselves it's protecting our like a mechanism to protect our brain yes my son said to me i really mom do you know what i really love about love and appreciate about you like just that line i'm like who whose son are you and i am so happy that he's your son but he is my son but like

wow but you know like you would have probably said things like that this son is okay well anyway he goes um I love when you cuddle me that you put your hand down my back as well and I was like oh he said I really appreciate you doing that I was like that's so sweet darling thank you this is number three yeah and then number four yesterday

went to school and actually arrived and was crying.

Not with me.

He went on the bus.

He was fine.

But I got a text from the chaplain.

Well, actually, I got a text from my friend who works at school saying, oh, Tay was really upset this morning.

And I was like, why?

He said, oh, he was talking about his dad.

I was like, oh, gosh, poor babe.

Anyway, he ended up being fine.

But I text the chaplain.

So when he got home, I said, oh, were you okay?

He said, yeah, I was just really sad about daddy.