Jessie Stephens

I was like, but if I say that, they're going to get upset.

And someone said to me, what you're doing is manipulative, which is you're trying to control their response, which is none of your business and not your responsibility.

Let them.

Let them.

I probably think it's a big thing.

It's a family decision.

If your husband would love you sitting next to him when he tells them, that's probably a nice thing to do.

But it's a business.

I don't know.

I reckon that if you're telling your in-laws we're moving into state and that's a big thing and there's going to be grief and there's going to be

The business I feel is also a distraction.

I reckon that it's bigger than that but you need to work out exactly what you're going to say and then you've got to accept their response because they're allowed to be really upset.

They're allowed to be mad.

They're allowed to yell.

They're allowed to do whatever they want but it's kind of none of your business.

I think I've probably reached my friend's venting threshold for this year and it's barely past mid-January.

I feel like you get a pass to vent.

She's pregnant with twins.

She's got complications.

There's a lot happening.