Jillian Turecki

But really, honestly, the best couples I know, and this is going to be hard for some people to hear, but the best couples I know are really respectful of each other. And so they don't let their arguments get dirty. They don't hit below the belt.

But really, honestly, the best couples I know, and this is going to be hard for some people to hear, but the best couples I know are really respectful of each other. And so they don't let their arguments get dirty. They don't hit below the belt.

But really, honestly, the best couples I know, and this is going to be hard for some people to hear, but the best couples I know are really respectful of each other. And so they don't let their arguments get dirty. They don't hit below the belt.

I love what you shared. I also love that there's humor involved. I think that humor is one of the best pattern interrupts ever. It Couples can start laughing together. But I love that.

I love what you shared. I also love that there's humor involved. I think that humor is one of the best pattern interrupts ever. It Couples can start laughing together. But I love that.

I love what you shared. I also love that there's humor involved. I think that humor is one of the best pattern interrupts ever. It Couples can start laughing together. But I love that.

I think that, you know, just to kind of piggyback on that is one of the biggest mistakes I see people make is they keep digging and pushing the button when the other person is on the edge of their like, like they're going to lose it and of their dysregulation. And that's when things totally erupt and become crazy.

I think that, you know, just to kind of piggyback on that is one of the biggest mistakes I see people make is they keep digging and pushing the button when the other person is on the edge of their like, like they're going to lose it and of their dysregulation. And that's when things totally erupt and become crazy.

I think that, you know, just to kind of piggyback on that is one of the biggest mistakes I see people make is they keep digging and pushing the button when the other person is on the edge of their like, like they're going to lose it and of their dysregulation. And that's when things totally erupt and become crazy.

And so I love that because if we can have respect for the timing of things, which is, you know, if I'm flooded right now emotionally, this is not going to end well. And having that, I don't even think that should be an advanced tool. I think that should be taught like on day one.

And so I love that because if we can have respect for the timing of things, which is, you know, if I'm flooded right now emotionally, this is not going to end well. And having that, I don't even think that should be an advanced tool. I think that should be taught like on day one.

And so I love that because if we can have respect for the timing of things, which is, you know, if I'm flooded right now emotionally, this is not going to end well. And having that, I don't even think that should be an advanced tool. I think that should be taught like on day one.

Yeah. Yeah. So good.

Yeah. Yeah. So good.

Yeah. Yeah. So good.

Don't have important, don't have those conversations at night in bed period.

Don't have important, don't have those conversations at night in bed period.

Don't have important, don't have those conversations at night in bed period.

That's not the time to bring up stuff. So I think the timing of when you bring up something that's bothering you is, I think timing is everything. So yes, so just try to avoid that whole scenario altogether where you're up late at night talking about the relationship. It's terrible.

That's not the time to bring up stuff. So I think the timing of when you bring up something that's bothering you is, I think timing is everything. So yes, so just try to avoid that whole scenario altogether where you're up late at night talking about the relationship. It's terrible.