Jillian Turecki
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That's not the time to bring up stuff. So I think the timing of when you bring up something that's bothering you is, I think timing is everything. So yes, so just try to avoid that whole scenario altogether where you're up late at night talking about the relationship. It's terrible.
You know, it's funny, most of the time I'm telling people they need to have more difficult conversations with each other because my experience with people is that we tend to avoid these hard conversations because we don't really know how to communicate about it and it's very uncomfortable. However, there are people who talk about their relationship too much.
You know, it's funny, most of the time I'm telling people they need to have more difficult conversations with each other because my experience with people is that we tend to avoid these hard conversations because we don't really know how to communicate about it and it's very uncomfortable. However, there are people who talk about their relationship too much.
You know, it's funny, most of the time I'm telling people they need to have more difficult conversations with each other because my experience with people is that we tend to avoid these hard conversations because we don't really know how to communicate about it and it's very uncomfortable. However, there are people who talk about their relationship too much.
And really what they would benefit from is just letting go and having more fun and stop talking about the relationship constantly. I think that. I think in general, women like to talk about their relationship more than men.
And really what they would benefit from is just letting go and having more fun and stop talking about the relationship constantly. I think that. I think in general, women like to talk about their relationship more than men.
And really what they would benefit from is just letting go and having more fun and stop talking about the relationship constantly. I think that. I think in general, women like to talk about their relationship more than men.
And one of the conflicts that I see particularly in heteronormative relationships is the woman always wanting to talk about the relationship and the man never wanting to talk about the relationship. And the thing is, is that him never wanting to talk about the relationship is a problem and her always wanting to talk about the relationship is also a problem.
And one of the conflicts that I see particularly in heteronormative relationships is the woman always wanting to talk about the relationship and the man never wanting to talk about the relationship. And the thing is, is that him never wanting to talk about the relationship is a problem and her always wanting to talk about the relationship is also a problem.
And one of the conflicts that I see particularly in heteronormative relationships is the woman always wanting to talk about the relationship and the man never wanting to talk about the relationship. And the thing is, is that him never wanting to talk about the relationship is a problem and her always wanting to talk about the relationship is also a problem.
So I think it's about bringing that awareness to your relationship and just saying, you know, how often am I bringing up us and not spending time enjoying us? Or, you know, am I, you know, am I just not listening to my partner? I keep avoiding this uncomfortable conversation.
So I think it's about bringing that awareness to your relationship and just saying, you know, how often am I bringing up us and not spending time enjoying us? Or, you know, am I, you know, am I just not listening to my partner? I keep avoiding this uncomfortable conversation.
So I think it's about bringing that awareness to your relationship and just saying, you know, how often am I bringing up us and not spending time enjoying us? Or, you know, am I, you know, am I just not listening to my partner? I keep avoiding this uncomfortable conversation.
Yeah, absolutely, one of my truths in the book, one of my chapters is you must tell the truth. So telling the truth is really important because, and it starts with telling the truth to ourselves. So yeah, having those important conversations are very important, but also, timing, right? So it's not, you're not bringing up their relationship all day, all the time.
Yeah, absolutely, one of my truths in the book, one of my chapters is you must tell the truth. So telling the truth is really important because, and it starts with telling the truth to ourselves. So yeah, having those important conversations are very important, but also, timing, right? So it's not, you're not bringing up their relationship all day, all the time.
Yeah, absolutely, one of my truths in the book, one of my chapters is you must tell the truth. So telling the truth is really important because, and it starts with telling the truth to ourselves. So yeah, having those important conversations are very important, but also, timing, right? So it's not, you're not bringing up their relationship all day, all the time.
And at times when they're in the middle of your partners in the middle of like a work meeting. So I really do think timing, I keep coming back to this, but I do think the timing of these conversations and when we bring them up really truly determines how that conversation will go. The quality of the conversation.
And at times when they're in the middle of your partners in the middle of like a work meeting. So I really do think timing, I keep coming back to this, but I do think the timing of these conversations and when we bring them up really truly determines how that conversation will go. The quality of the conversation.
And at times when they're in the middle of your partners in the middle of like a work meeting. So I really do think timing, I keep coming back to this, but I do think the timing of these conversations and when we bring them up really truly determines how that conversation will go. The quality of the conversation.
Yeah.