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Jillian Turecki

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Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

So it's just a fact. Once the hormones are and it happens a lot for women, especially women who have a high amount of estrogen in their bodies. It's like once they sleep with someone, once they feel emotionally connected to someone, all this oxytocin comes up. You know, when we, it's, we are just, it's biological. We have chemistry with someone. We are not going to see them very clearly.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

So it's just a fact. Once the hormones are and it happens a lot for women, especially women who have a high amount of estrogen in their bodies. It's like once they sleep with someone, once they feel emotionally connected to someone, all this oxytocin comes up. You know, when we, it's, we are just, it's biological. We have chemistry with someone. We are not going to see them very clearly.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

So it's just a fact. Once the hormones are and it happens a lot for women, especially women who have a high amount of estrogen in their bodies. It's like once they sleep with someone, once they feel emotionally connected to someone, all this oxytocin comes up. You know, when we, it's, we are just, it's biological. We have chemistry with someone. We are not going to see them very clearly.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

If we're lonely, you, if you compound that with a little bit of loneliness, which is nothing to be ashamed of, we live in a very lonely time. And then you really want to, or you're like worried that you're not going to meet someone or your biological clock is ticking, whatever it is. And then you sleep with them.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

If we're lonely, you, if you compound that with a little bit of loneliness, which is nothing to be ashamed of, we live in a very lonely time. And then you really want to, or you're like worried that you're not going to meet someone or your biological clock is ticking, whatever it is. And then you sleep with them.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

If we're lonely, you, if you compound that with a little bit of loneliness, which is nothing to be ashamed of, we live in a very lonely time. And then you really want to, or you're like worried that you're not going to meet someone or your biological clock is ticking, whatever it is. And then you sleep with them.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

You're going to, there's going to be a part of you that wants a relationship with them. And so I certainly, For me personally, I'm not gonna be in a relationship with someone where I don't feel safe and also I'm attracted to them. It's a deal breaker. However, however,

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

You're going to, there's going to be a part of you that wants a relationship with them. And so I certainly, For me personally, I'm not gonna be in a relationship with someone where I don't feel safe and also I'm attracted to them. It's a deal breaker. However, however,

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

You're going to, there's going to be a part of you that wants a relationship with them. And so I certainly, For me personally, I'm not gonna be in a relationship with someone where I don't feel safe and also I'm attracted to them. It's a deal breaker. However, however,

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

if I'm like finding someone very, very sexy and I'm very attracted to them, that doesn't mean I'm going to pursue a relationship with them. That might mean that I have to actually put like the iron wall in front of me and be like, do not enter because I know that that's going to be problematic. Chemistry can also build when you feel safe with someone.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

if I'm like finding someone very, very sexy and I'm very attracted to them, that doesn't mean I'm going to pursue a relationship with them. That might mean that I have to actually put like the iron wall in front of me and be like, do not enter because I know that that's going to be problematic. Chemistry can also build when you feel safe with someone.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

if I'm like finding someone very, very sexy and I'm very attracted to them, that doesn't mean I'm going to pursue a relationship with them. That might mean that I have to actually put like the iron wall in front of me and be like, do not enter because I know that that's going to be problematic. Chemistry can also build when you feel safe with someone.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

There's also, you could have amazing spiritual chemistry with someone and then explore your sexuality with that person. So there's lots of different things, but what people have to understand is that

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

There's also, you could have amazing spiritual chemistry with someone and then explore your sexuality with that person. So there's lots of different things, but what people have to understand is that

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

There's also, you could have amazing spiritual chemistry with someone and then explore your sexuality with that person. So there's lots of different things, but what people have to understand is that

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

All those feelings that you feel in the beginning are actually quite dangerous emotionally because they can't have the potential to be dangerous emotionally because they can actually make it so that you are not seeing the red flags. It can make it that you're lying to yourself. It can make it so that you're just like rushing to seal the deal with this person.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

All those feelings that you feel in the beginning are actually quite dangerous emotionally because they can't have the potential to be dangerous emotionally because they can actually make it so that you are not seeing the red flags. It can make it that you're lying to yourself. It can make it so that you're just like rushing to seal the deal with this person.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

All those feelings that you feel in the beginning are actually quite dangerous emotionally because they can't have the potential to be dangerous emotionally because they can actually make it so that you are not seeing the red flags. It can make it that you're lying to yourself. It can make it so that you're just like rushing to seal the deal with this person.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

So I really do think that processing your enthusiasm, reminding yourself that you're feeling a lot of attraction for someone, but you have to be so incredibly dedicated to whatever intention you have going into a dating scenario. And I would say if you're someone who tends to fall quickly, you gotta really, really slow it down.

Healing + Human Potential
The Truth About Modern Love: What No One Tells You About Relationships - Jillian Turecki | EP 72

So I really do think that processing your enthusiasm, reminding yourself that you're feeling a lot of attraction for someone, but you have to be so incredibly dedicated to whatever intention you have going into a dating scenario. And I would say if you're someone who tends to fall quickly, you gotta really, really slow it down.