Jillian Turecki

Yeah, well, first, I just want to just thank you for having me on. I really appreciate you. This was a really lovely conversation. And thank you. So yeah, you know, my first and last name. So to get the book, it's JillianTerecki.com slash book. I'm all over Instagram, TikTok, YouTube. I have my podcast, Jillian on Love. And that's where you can find me.

Thank you so much. I appreciate you.

Thank you so much. I appreciate you.

Thank you so much. I appreciate you.

A lot of women, and men again will do this too, but a lot more women will silence what their needs are. Let me try to be cool. Let me go with the flow. Let me be a pleaser. Let me be a nurturer. Because everything is like, I want you to choose me. I want you to pursue me. I want to be like that fairy tale. And nothing could be further from the truth of what reality is.

A lot of women, and men again will do this too, but a lot more women will silence what their needs are. Let me try to be cool. Let me go with the flow. Let me be a pleaser. Let me be a nurturer. Because everything is like, I want you to choose me. I want you to pursue me. I want to be like that fairy tale. And nothing could be further from the truth of what reality is.

A lot of women, and men again will do this too, but a lot more women will silence what their needs are. Let me try to be cool. Let me go with the flow. Let me be a pleaser. Let me be a nurturer. Because everything is like, I want you to choose me. I want you to pursue me. I want to be like that fairy tale. And nothing could be further from the truth of what reality is.

And that is, you have to be the one who is direct and forward about what it is that you want. You are to be the one who is also choosing. And you are going to become much more attractive to many more people when you actually assume that role.

And that is, you have to be the one who is direct and forward about what it is that you want. You are to be the one who is also choosing. And you are going to become much more attractive to many more people when you actually assume that role.

And that is, you have to be the one who is direct and forward about what it is that you want. You are to be the one who is also choosing. And you are going to become much more attractive to many more people when you actually assume that role.

Oh, thank you so much for having me.

Oh, thank you so much for having me.

Oh, thank you so much for having me.

I think I just really understand the mind of people and a lot of women, especially who are really great people, but struggle in relationships. I think I just understand that psychology because I've been that person before. So maybe that's it. And I think I just I draw a lot from my own experience as well as my professional experience. And I just try to really just say the truth.

I think I just really understand the mind of people and a lot of women, especially who are really great people, but struggle in relationships. I think I just understand that psychology because I've been that person before. So maybe that's it. And I think I just I draw a lot from my own experience as well as my professional experience. And I just try to really just say the truth.

I think I just really understand the mind of people and a lot of women, especially who are really great people, but struggle in relationships. I think I just understand that psychology because I've been that person before. So maybe that's it. And I think I just I draw a lot from my own experience as well as my professional experience. And I just try to really just say the truth.

So maybe that is it.

So maybe that is it.

So maybe that is it.

Yeah. So, I mean, I grew up, my parents were immigrants. My father originally from Poland, my mom originally from South Africa, but then they met in South Africa and my parents had a terrible marriage. My father at the time was undiagnosed bipolar disorder. He was extremely narcissistic, but extremely intelligent to the point of a genius and very good at what he does.