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Jim Kwik

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1737 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Imagine you meet someone named Mary.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Handshake, break.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Imagine she's getting married or she's carrying two lambs under her arms.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

And here's the thing.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

It overcomes in business what I call the six-second rule.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Somebody tells you something important in a conversation or their name, you have six seconds to do something with it.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Otherwise, what happens?

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

You lose it.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

It's gone.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Out of your working memory, short-term memory, it's gone.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Got it.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

So this helps you to focus uniquely on both the person and also the name.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

So if a person's name, so for example, is let's say Carol.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Imagine they're singing Christmas carols.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

A person's name is Mike.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Imagine them jumping on the table, singing on a microphone for a split second.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

And then when you say goodbye to them 20 minutes later, you're like, oh, that guy was singing karaoke on the microphone.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

What's his name?

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Mike.

THE ED MYLETT SHOW
The Hidden Pattern Destroying Your Success (Delete Your Old Self) | Ed Mylett

Because it glues it.