Jodi Hillebrand

And, you know, that's not practical support, you know.

And so I just feel like the practical part of it gets lost in things.

And maybe people don't know.

what to do, but, um, I do it in the, in my books, I do start people to, um, couples, I want them to read it while they're pregnant.

Cause then it starts them putting together their postpartum plan and you have a birth plan.

Where's your postpartum plan?

Because the postpartum plan lasts a lot longer than the birth.

Right.

Oh yeah.

So, um,

Um, start thinking about it now and put it together now and then get, make sure that you and your partner and your expectations of each other are in alignment.

For sure.

Absolutely.

Because if you are like just expecting, you know, your partner is going to be doing X, Y, Z and your partner is thinking you're going to be doing X, Y, Z and then it, yeah, conflict.

Right.

And we don't need that when we're dealing with everything else and we're sleep deprived.

Oh yeah.

Right.

So get it together now.

And I do have a course, the postpartum survival course, where I teach couples how to do this.