Jodie Hayward

You could have all the strategies in the world and you're still not going to be successful.

Yeah.

And I think one of the biggest things that stops people when it comes to like visibility is this comparison.

You cannot have happiness where there is comparison.

Like you just can't.

Whether you're comparing yourself to someone else online or you're comparing yourself to a past version of you, that's never going to allow you to give yourself the space and the confidence that you need to be showing up consistently.

You know, you can't have that happiness there.

It's such a shame as well because there's so many talented, I don't know who is listening to this, but if you're listening to this, you are talented.

You're listening to this for a reason.

You just need to claim that for yourself.

You need to have that confidence in yourself because guess what?

There is someone watching you going, oh my God, she is amazing.

I want to be like her when I grow up.

Exactly.

Exactly.

But I also think that a lot of people and this is going to pay a few people off.

Sorry.

a lot of people will sit there and go but you don't understand like i've got four kids i've got this i've still got a job i blah blah blah do you know what i mean everyone people say like we've got the same 24 hours in a day no we haven't no we haven't we've got different life commitments different things going on outside that's absolutely okay but but you can continue to live in your excuses

And you will never find success there.

You have to literally choose.