Joe Hudson
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
No one's better or worse.
And there's a nuance there, which is interesting.
So what some people will do is they'll take that information and they'll say, I'm not going to tell you about your avoidance issues because I have to figure out my shit first.
Horrible decision.
Just as horrible.
This is all because of your avoidance issue.
Horrible decision.
What I notice is that...
In our relationship, you're avoidant and I'm chasing.
And all I know is that feels like shit.
I'm wondering how that feels to you.
And I wonder, like, what's the world you want to create with me?
That's the real conversation.
But what we do is we think, is my fault or their fault?
Hooey.
It's like, all it is is like you are in a dynamic together.
Do you want to heal the dynamic together or do you want to go and heal the dynamic separately?
Or do you just want to repeat the same pattern until you're 80?
Also an option.
Yeah.