John Delony

I feel bad.

How can I love you?

And you practicing saying to yourself, his vote matters as much as mine.

Two words can guide you or three curiosity over judgment.

One simple question.

Tell me more about that.

And it's a humbling moment for you because you survived on having to be right.

Having to sift and filter through tons of emotional data flying at you a million miles an hour from a million different directions and make a call and go.

And now you're going to have to practice saying, I might be wrong on this.

And that's okay because we are deciding where we are going.

Right.

Tell me more about that.

Or getting to a place now where my wife will say like,

that doesn't feel right to me at all.

What you just said.

And I'm not going to go, what?

I'll be like, okay, let me see if I can say it in a better way.

Right.

Jefferson Fisher gave me a line one time that was really transformative for me.

As I'm saying something, when I say it and I know it doesn't land or it's not landing or it just came out how I said, I didn't mean to say it that way or whatever, a quick line to follow up with is, can I say that in a different way?