Jojo Moyes

That's always a funny thing, isn't it?

Especially if you are a woman who works hard and is visibly successful because it's automatically down to you.

It's your fault for not being more present or for not working harder.

And the one thing I... All I can tell you is that I work hard at everything.

Relationships, you know.

Some things just end.

And, you know, nobody needs to know more than that.

But I...

You know, we discussed earlier on that you and I shared a divorce lawyer.

One of my proudest possessions is the email she sent me after I got divorced saying I wished all couples could handle it with the grace and kindness that you two showed each other.

And my ex-husband is still my friend and we speak every week and he has Christmas with us.

Yeah.

How did you do it?

OK.

The very, very first thing is never marry a man you wouldn't want to be divorced from.

Wait, what?

So are they a kind person?

Do they treat people with respect?

Do they talk badly about their exes?

All these are key indicators of how that person is going to be about you once you're no longer... Can I say something?