Jojo Moyes
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Go on.
I don't mean that.
You're not thinking about divorce.
You're not thinking about divorce, but it's like... If you were in conflict with this person, how do you think they would behave?
Yes, that is the most... Because that is who they are at their core, right?
Are they a good person is what you're saying.
Yes, and my ex-husband is a good person.
That's amazing.
Yeah.
OK, so the second biggest one is just it's actually not about you.
It's about your kids.
You've made a decision that is going to profoundly affect them.
Even the best divorce is going to have a negative effect on them.
And you have to acknowledge that.
And so even when.
your ex, you might want to kind of stick pins in a dolly or, you know, you kick the wall or whatever.
You don't do it in front of the kids.
They get none of it.
Absolutely none of it.
Get some therapy, get a best friend, punch a pillow, whatever.