Jon Gordon
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It's going to help them navigate what to do in those situations or what the other person is doing and why they're doing it. And this will give you a clear sense and also have so much more power in doing it. So that's what I love about I loved about writing it. I love when people are reading it and getting that.
It's going to help them navigate what to do in those situations or what the other person is doing and why they're doing it. And this will give you a clear sense and also have so much more power in doing it. So that's what I love about I loved about writing it. I love when people are reading it and getting that.
It's going to help them navigate what to do in those situations or what the other person is doing and why they're doing it. And this will give you a clear sense and also have so much more power in doing it. So that's what I love about I loved about writing it. I love when people are reading it and getting that.
Catherine, the other day, we were meeting with a college coach and the college coach was talking and Catherine had read the manuscript to help me out a little bit, to give me some thoughts. And she goes, oh, that's because you're looking outside instead of inside. She started giving some of the teachings to the college coach over dinner. of what she read. I go, oh, you read the book?
Catherine, the other day, we were meeting with a college coach and the college coach was talking and Catherine had read the manuscript to help me out a little bit, to give me some thoughts. And she goes, oh, that's because you're looking outside instead of inside. She started giving some of the teachings to the college coach over dinner. of what she read. I go, oh, you read the book?
Catherine, the other day, we were meeting with a college coach and the college coach was talking and Catherine had read the manuscript to help me out a little bit, to give me some thoughts. And she goes, oh, that's because you're looking outside instead of inside. She started giving some of the teachings to the college coach over dinner. of what she read. I go, oh, you read the book?
She goes, oh yeah, it's so clear. I'm like, yes, once you see it, it's so clear. And once you have that clarity, everything makes so much more sense. And so your narcissistic leader, a narcissist actually feels separate. And because they feel separate, they act alone. They go into self-preservation mode because they don't feel like they're part of anybody or any bigger connection.
She goes, oh yeah, it's so clear. I'm like, yes, once you see it, it's so clear. And once you have that clarity, everything makes so much more sense. And so your narcissistic leader, a narcissist actually feels separate. And because they feel separate, they act alone. They go into self-preservation mode because they don't feel like they're part of anybody or any bigger connection.
She goes, oh yeah, it's so clear. I'm like, yes, once you see it, it's so clear. And once you have that clarity, everything makes so much more sense. And so your narcissistic leader, a narcissist actually feels separate. And because they feel separate, they act alone. They go into self-preservation mode because they don't feel like they're part of anybody or any bigger connection.
And so they don't care about anyone else. Because they feel separate. They only care about themselves. And that's what makes them a narcissist. And they wind up separating themselves from others and making people feel less than as a result of that. But here's what's cool.
And so they don't care about anyone else. Because they feel separate. They only care about themselves. And that's what makes them a narcissist. And they wind up separating themselves from others and making people feel less than as a result of that. But here's what's cool.
And so they don't care about anyone else. Because they feel separate. They only care about themselves. And that's what makes them a narcissist. And they wind up separating themselves from others and making people feel less than as a result of that. But here's what's cool.
I wrote about in the book, as you know, at the neurological level, narcissists, because of their trauma, their painful experiences, what they've gone through, which makes them a narcissist, there's actually a a part of the brain where they cut off certain parts of the brain from others and they create separation even at the neurological level.
I wrote about in the book, as you know, at the neurological level, narcissists, because of their trauma, their painful experiences, what they've gone through, which makes them a narcissist, there's actually a a part of the brain where they cut off certain parts of the brain from others and they create separation even at the neurological level.
I wrote about in the book, as you know, at the neurological level, narcissists, because of their trauma, their painful experiences, what they've gone through, which makes them a narcissist, there's actually a a part of the brain where they cut off certain parts of the brain from others and they create separation even at the neurological level.
So the physical manifestation, the neurological manifestation is a result of the separateness that they actually feel. And because they feel powerless, they now have to have this sense of power, but it's actually very weak power. It seems powerful. It arises, so it seems powerful, but it's actually very weak because it's connected to self.
So the physical manifestation, the neurological manifestation is a result of the separateness that they actually feel. And because they feel powerless, they now have to have this sense of power, but it's actually very weak power. It seems powerful. It arises, so it seems powerful, but it's actually very weak because it's connected to self.
So the physical manifestation, the neurological manifestation is a result of the separateness that they actually feel. And because they feel powerless, they now have to have this sense of power, but it's actually very weak power. It seems powerful. It arises, so it seems powerful, but it's actually very weak because it's connected to self.
It's like that barking dog that seems powerful that's not powerful at all. So it seems like it is, but it's not connected to self. Instead, real power is connected to oneness, a greater power, connected to others, community, connected spiritually to God. We are meant to be connected to our creator, but the narcissist doesn't feel connected to a God or anything.
It's like that barking dog that seems powerful that's not powerful at all. So it seems like it is, but it's not connected to self. Instead, real power is connected to oneness, a greater power, connected to others, community, connected spiritually to God. We are meant to be connected to our creator, but the narcissist doesn't feel connected to a God or anything.