Jonathan Fields

Tell me if this is actually true.

that 100% of the coupling, the partners that you have helped sort of facilitate through your approach, your methodology, are still together?

Yeah, true, true.

Walk me through then sort of on a high, I realize there's a massive amount of really in-depth, high level of personalization, tailoring, customization.

But I'm really curious now, walk me through on sort of like a meta level, a high level of the core elements, the core steps, however you would sort of define it of this methodology.

Well, I mean, I think the trope would be sense of humor.

No kidding.

Wow.

I would be so busted.

So how do you know, or what do you mean by the phrase that the attraction builds?

So when you look at the dream list that somebody has, these are all the features.

And then you look at the elevator list.

Do you often see high levels of crossover or very low levels of crossover?

Yeah.

So if I'm hearing it correctly, part of what you're saying is that when we start with the deeper aspects, the qualities that we know have over time really been nourishing to us in other people.

And if we search for that in a potential partner.

that sometimes the physical attraction can come second.

It kind of follows that, but that's not the popular lore.

The popular lore is it starts with a, I see you across the room, something inside me biologically lights up,

And then from there, so we start out in a physical thing and then from there we grow to appreciate each other on these different levels.