Jonathan Pokluda

we're called in marriage to ephesians 5 lay our lives down for our wives everybody gets hung up on the submission yeah like wives submit to your husbands which the bible says multiple times first peter 3 ephesians 5 colossians 1 or colossians 3 uh so that wives are to submit to their husbands but it says husbands sacrifice your life for your wife that's a big as christ did the church i would argue a bigger deal you know yeah like if if a man is like hey i'm

we're called in marriage to ephesians 5 lay our lives down for our wives everybody gets hung up on the submission yeah like wives submit to your husbands which the bible says multiple times first peter 3 ephesians 5 colossians 1 or colossians 3 uh so that wives are to submit to their husbands but it says husbands sacrifice your life for your wife that's a big as christ did the church i would argue a bigger deal you know yeah like if if a man is like hey i'm

I'm gonna put your desires first at every turn. And so, yeah, I think what you're looking for is someone that you can love selflessly and be loved by them selflessly, not so much about what they make you feel.

I'm gonna put your desires first at every turn. And so, yeah, I think what you're looking for is someone that you can love selflessly and be loved by them selflessly, not so much about what they make you feel.

I'm gonna put your desires first at every turn. And so, yeah, I think what you're looking for is someone that you can love selflessly and be loved by them selflessly, not so much about what they make you feel.

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That's such a great question, brother. So I'm kind of a car guy. Like I like cars and I'm a gift guy. Like that's my love language is gifts. And so one day, this was before I was in ministry, my wife wanted like a Suburban. and again, this is when I was in corporate world and I was like, ma'am, I want to get her something really nice. And I found this Cadillac Escalade.

That's such a great question, brother. So I'm kind of a car guy. Like I like cars and I'm a gift guy. Like that's my love language is gifts. And so one day, this was before I was in ministry, my wife wanted like a Suburban. and again, this is when I was in corporate world and I was like, ma'am, I want to get her something really nice. And I found this Cadillac Escalade.

That's such a great question, brother. So I'm kind of a car guy. Like I like cars and I'm a gift guy. Like that's my love language is gifts. And so one day, this was before I was in ministry, my wife wanted like a Suburban. and again, this is when I was in corporate world and I was like, ma'am, I want to get her something really nice. And I found this Cadillac Escalade.

It's black, peanut butter interior is beautiful. And, um, And I gave it to her in this really creative way. I put it on the side of the road with a for sale sign. I knew she would see it and be like, oh, what about that? And I'd be like, oh, we can't afford that. And it's hers and all the things. And I had gotten a great price on it. And I got so caught up in the good deal.

It's black, peanut butter interior is beautiful. And, um, And I gave it to her in this really creative way. I put it on the side of the road with a for sale sign. I knew she would see it and be like, oh, what about that? And I'd be like, oh, we can't afford that. And it's hers and all the things. And I had gotten a great price on it. And I got so caught up in the good deal.

It's black, peanut butter interior is beautiful. And, um, And I gave it to her in this really creative way. I put it on the side of the road with a for sale sign. I knew she would see it and be like, oh, what about that? And I'd be like, oh, we can't afford that. And it's hers and all the things. And I had gotten a great price on it. And I got so caught up in the good deal.

Like this is such a good deal that I didn't go slow in the terms. I didn't have my mechanic look at it or anything. I just like, man, I found a great deal. We can afford it. She's going to love it. I'm going to surprise her. So I gave her that, that Escalade.

Like this is such a good deal that I didn't go slow in the terms. I didn't have my mechanic look at it or anything. I just like, man, I found a great deal. We can afford it. She's going to love it. I'm going to surprise her. So I gave her that, that Escalade.

Like this is such a good deal that I didn't go slow in the terms. I didn't have my mechanic look at it or anything. I just like, man, I found a great deal. We can afford it. She's going to love it. I'm going to surprise her. So I gave her that, that Escalade.

And I remember like the first time she was driving it, like something started rattling in the dash and then like the dash fell off and then something broke in the engine. And then we had to take it in and there was something wrong with the rear end and all this stuff started going wrong with this car. And, and it was just like one thing after the other.

And I remember like the first time she was driving it, like something started rattling in the dash and then like the dash fell off and then something broke in the engine. And then we had to take it in and there was something wrong with the rear end and all this stuff started going wrong with this car. And, and it was just like one thing after the other.

And I remember like the first time she was driving it, like something started rattling in the dash and then like the dash fell off and then something broke in the engine. And then we had to take it in and there was something wrong with the rear end and all this stuff started going wrong with this car. And, and it was just like one thing after the other.