Jonathan Pokluda

That's your thumb. And then your pinky, that's physical attraction. That's pink, that's chemistry. I would say this is the one that we put in first place. I'd say it has a place, it's just not first place. And in fact, if you gotta lose a finger, If I said, hey, right now, the only way you're going to live is if I get to take off a finger, that'd be weird.

But if I did say that, you're probably going to say, go ahead and take the pinky. That's the one that's the least important of the five. And what we've done is we've taken that one in fifth place and we put it in first place.

But if I did say that, you're probably going to say, go ahead and take the pinky. That's the one that's the least important of the five. And what we've done is we've taken that one in fifth place and we put it in first place.

But if I did say that, you're probably going to say, go ahead and take the pinky. That's the one that's the least important of the five. And what we've done is we've taken that one in fifth place and we put it in first place.

And the reason we've done that is because I think pornography, it's rewired our brains in such a way that that guys are trying to find the Mother Teresa missionary, you know, serves at her church, but looks like a porn star. And And I don't think we really understand how far porn has carried us and set us up for failure. That guys are discontent. They're afraid to commit. They're fearful.

And the reason we've done that is because I think pornography, it's rewired our brains in such a way that that guys are trying to find the Mother Teresa missionary, you know, serves at her church, but looks like a porn star. And And I don't think we really understand how far porn has carried us and set us up for failure. That guys are discontent. They're afraid to commit. They're fearful.

And the reason we've done that is because I think pornography, it's rewired our brains in such a way that that guys are trying to find the Mother Teresa missionary, you know, serves at her church, but looks like a porn star. And And I don't think we really understand how far porn has carried us and set us up for failure. That guys are discontent. They're afraid to commit. They're fearful.

They're not asking girls out. They're hiding behind screens. And I think it's really created quite a pretty desperate dating landscape today.

They're not asking girls out. They're hiding behind screens. And I think it's really created quite a pretty desperate dating landscape today.

They're not asking girls out. They're hiding behind screens. And I think it's really created quite a pretty desperate dating landscape today.

Praise God.

Praise God.

Praise God.

Which is actually selfish, not selfless. It's like, I'll ask people, what do you love? Before I do a wedding, sometimes I'll say, what do you love about them? And they'll say, I love the way he makes me feel. Well, that's about you. When biblical love is actually sacrificial love. John 21, Jesus says to Peter, do you love me? Do you agape me? And Peter says back, I do phileo you.

Which is actually selfish, not selfless. It's like, I'll ask people, what do you love? Before I do a wedding, sometimes I'll say, what do you love about them? And they'll say, I love the way he makes me feel. Well, that's about you. When biblical love is actually sacrificial love. John 21, Jesus says to Peter, do you love me? Do you agape me? And Peter says back, I do phileo you.

Which is actually selfish, not selfless. It's like, I'll ask people, what do you love? Before I do a wedding, sometimes I'll say, what do you love about them? And they'll say, I love the way he makes me feel. Well, that's about you. When biblical love is actually sacrificial love. John 21, Jesus says to Peter, do you love me? Do you agape me? And Peter says back, I do phileo you.

I do love you like a brother. And Jesus says, yeah, but do you love me sacrificially? And he says, hey, I do love you like a brother.

I do love you like a brother. And Jesus says, yeah, but do you love me sacrificially? And he says, hey, I do love you like a brother.

I do love you like a brother. And Jesus says, yeah, but do you love me sacrificially? And he says, hey, I do love you like a brother.

we're called in marriage to ephesians 5 lay our lives down for our wives everybody gets hung up on the submission yeah like wives submit to your husbands which the bible says multiple times first peter 3 ephesians 5 colossians 1 or colossians 3 uh so that wives are to submit to their husbands but it says husbands sacrifice your life for your wife that's a big as christ did the church i would argue a bigger deal you know yeah like if if a man is like hey i'm