Jordan Jensen

Yeah, they have disagreements, but they're nice to each other, kind to each other.

And, you know, if you see that when you're a kid, you go, oh, this is possible.

But if you see like chaos all the time and everyone's fighting and screaming and yelling at each other, you're like, keep me the fuck away from whatever this is.

Yeah.

Because I remember I'd watch my grandmother and my grandparents.

My grandmother was always yelling at my grandfather.

I was like, oh, don't stay married, whatever you do.

When I was a little kid, I was like, you've got to get out while you can.

Well, there's a lot of cucked out men out there.

cucked out by their job cucked out by life you know you just stop being a man and then you stop getting any respect from the people that know you because they know you're kind of a bitch the people that really know you like your wife and your kids really know you like oh harry harry's a fucking bitch yeah there's so many boomers like that though there's so many where it's the dad is so quiet and so distant and the mom is just so up everyone's ass thoreau wrote about that like

what whenever he wrote this he said most men live lives of quiet desperation that's yeah that's but that's real but why does it happen well there's a whole bunch of reasons because you stop challenging yourself or you never did

You stop growing and you don't have any character.

You don't exhibit a strong will and you don't have discipline.

And then, you know, you're emotionally disconnected from the life that you've chosen.

And then you have a job where you have to pretend to be someone you're not for eight hours a day and work for a boss who's a piece of shit.

And then you're a broken man.

And then you're like 46 years old and they're telling you to learn to code.

That's fucked.

A lot of people, they don't know what to do and they didn't get good advice when they were young.

They didn't get a good direction.