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Josh van Cuylenburg

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885 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Or even being the, I don't know if the phrase is correct here, but the sort of bigger person even to acknowledge that we both made mistakes, but I'm going to go first and admit to mine.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Because you just know every time that's going to get the right outcome.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Yeah.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Yeah, I don't have that.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

What I find interesting in my circumstance is how often if I say, I'm sorry, I was behaving like a bit of an arsehole over the last couple of days.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

I've been grumpy.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

I don't know why.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

I'm sorry.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

And usually there's an initial reaction of like, thank you for saying that.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Sophie will disappear and then five minutes later we'll come back with an apology of something else that she feels like she wants to share.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

It doesn't have to be, it doesn't happen straight away, but I find it really interesting how there's like a processing time.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Yeah.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Yes.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

And it's really lovely because you're like, oh, this didn't need to be a thing.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

Yeah, it's great.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

This is a bit of a non-secretary jump, but I wanted to ask you, because you've been doing a lot of work on workplace relationships and we're talking a lot thus far today about really about intimate relationships with a loved one.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

But I've been thinking a bit about workplace relationships in relation to a really good friend of mine, my closest, really close friend.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

He's one of the most charismatic people I've ever met and really lights up a room when he's in the room, makes people laugh.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

It's just a joy to be around him.

The Imperfects
Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

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