Josh van Cuylenburg

That's not a surprise to Joel.

He knew that.

What?

I mean, to sort of,

To try and look at it from the point of view of the person who would want to start a relationship, have a companion.

The biggest thing we talk about in this podcast is connection and like the importance of human connection and, you know, people and relationships.

And it's like, it's what it's all about.

If you're not exposed to lots of people and you haven't got, or you're shy or you've got some sort of social anxiety and you don't have the confidence to go, I can...

I can absolutely see the allure with a companion or a relationship that is unconditional love.

Someone who never challenges you, someone who does seemingly love you, quote unquote love you and support you and like encourage you.

And it's the friend slash companion that you've always dreamed of.

It's so, I can absolutely see, that's what's so scary about it.

Yeah.

Exactly.

I had an interesting experience actually on Gemini.

I started a channel and I love Alfred Adler, who's like a sort of...

relatively well-known, I don't know what you call him, like a psychologist, sort of like back in the Freud days, he was sort of in Freud and Jung's ether.

And he's the guy behind all the philosophies in The Courage to be Disliked, which is a very popular book, book that changed my life.

And I started a channel and I said like, in this thread, can you give me life advice, but only pull from the published books

work of Alfred Adler so please you know I would like advice but act as Alfred Adler but don't go rogue just stay on his theories and his teachings and I said and also be blunt because Alfred Adler was very blunt so be blunt with me you know don't