Julia Carpenter

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3,850 appearances 71 recordings 1 series first heard Oct 2019 last heard Sep 2024

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WSJ Your Money Briefing · Should ‘For Richer or Poorer’ Apply to Our Friendships? · 12 Feb 2024 podcast

This is what I can do.

This is what I can't do.

But she said she found she couldn't do it.

She was so worried about disappointing her friends and also losing out on that time with them.

So when I was interviewing these experts, talking to the financial advisors and the

They mentioned that happens.

Sometimes our inability to talk about this or the fear that we're carrying that in not talking about this, we're going to risk damaging the friendship may over time damage that friendship.

You may pull away over time if you find that you're not able to do the things that you used to do with your friends or that you resent having to do this, but you for some reason can't find the way into the conversation or help everybody involved see the realities at play.

That's where Eileen's point that staying rooted to that original value is so crucial.

And as she pointed out, it's not just staying rooted to that original value, whether you're the rich friend or you're the broke friend or you're the friend who's sort of watching all of this happen within the group chat.

That common bond that you had.

should be the center and the core of that friendship.

And if you're noticing that these things are getting in the way of it, then that's maybe your sign to come back to that original value and see if everybody else can do the same.

WSJ Your Money Briefing · The Right Way to Make YOLO Purchases · 28 Jan 2024 podcast

Not just stores, Instagram. matched

I feel like I can't even open any social media these days without just getting a million ads trying to push me to buy something. matched

This is easily the page in the book that I get the most comments on. matched

One of the things we know from behavioral science is that acting on impulse is rooted in you and what your values are. matched

So a lot of people get a high from just saying, I'm going to do what I want. matched

But other people don't like it. matched

They feel sort of restrained by it. matched

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