Julia Rangiheuea

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1,273 appearances 12 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 9 Aug

Julia Rangiheuea’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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And friendships once you go sober. matched

Because you lose all of your friends. matched

And even as I say that, people assume we're just like sitting in a corner in the darkness, rocking back and forth. matched

But you lose friendships because there's nothing that ties you together anymore. matched

Obviously, you were known as this Melbourne gay party boy. matched

What do your friendships look like now? matched

I find that that is my main way of repairing matched

my friendships is just being reliable now. matched

Because I think I've never said this, but I've been thinking about it a lot. matched

Sure. matched

At the start of my life I was probably a victim of child sexual abuse, a victim, a victim, a victim. matched

And I think in order to protect myself, I became a villain. matched

I became quite aggressive, quite it's my way or the highway. matched

I wasn't a really good friend. matched

I was so flaky. matched

Holy hell. matched

I was the worst. matched

And I think now to repair my friendships, all I can do is do what I say, say what I do and be reliable. matched

He said you've always felt like an outcast and that substance has made you feel like you fit in. matched

How do you feel now about yourself through sobriety? matched

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