Julia Shaw

And so if you think that

All men deserve to have a happy life, sort of a Disney version, with a woman at home who's taking care of the kids and this sort of white picket fence ideal that we've been sold.

We have been told that that is what we should have.

I understand where it comes from.

And

The question though is, are we entitled to that?

Or is that the idea that that's something we should strive towards?

And I think the answer is no, nobody's entitled to a good life.

I would like to see freedoms and rights manifest in such a way that everyone is able to achieve the kind of life that they themselves want, but you're not entitled to it.

And so that's where I think it can get a bit crossed and we can be sold these lies that are basically impossible for

everybody in society to achieve.

And understandably, people get angry.

And if you're angry, and if you feel entitled, and if you're in this group where everyone else is thinking the same way as you, yeah, that can make you dangerous.

And it can reinforce that worst self.

You see other people saying, yeah, I feel the same way.

Do you want me to help you?

So Tinder swindler, that was a person who pretended on Tinder to be a rich guy who had this lavish lifestyle.

And he would match with women on Tinder and very quickly love bomb them.

So he would send them all kinds of messages and immediately start...

being very emotional, very sharing, pretend that he's messaging from his private jet or actually message from his private jet, but pretend that he's in love with this person very quickly.