Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
Now think about the time.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
Well, and it's post-war, though, so I think that mattered as well.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
So there's something called a homosocial environment, which has nothing to do with being gay.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
That has to do with being in a situation where you are with people of the same gender as you.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
So a homosocial environment are things like prisons, where you only have men or only have women, war...
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
which at that point they just had.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And so you have a lot of men who are exclusively in the company of men and maybe looking around going, well, now that my options are different, maybe I'm going to choose from this pool.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
Anyway, so he found that it was that way around, that a lot of people have these fantasies or actions that they've engaged in.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And then there were other researchers, other male researchers, who found similar things.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And then at some point in the 70s, it swapped.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And it felt like maybe more people, more men were identifying as gay.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And there were maybe less people who would have called themselves bi.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And suddenly this became a thing more for women.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
So I think that there's some social things going on, there's some research things going on, but actually bi men have been studied for a long time as well.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
Definitely.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And I think that research consistently shows that
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
bisexual men are more likely to identify as, well, as gay or straight.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
And gay, well, it depends.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
So if they have what you might refer to as a homosexual lifestyle, so they engage in sort of going to queer parties, maybe go on Grindr or other gay apps, that would be much more a lifestyle thing where you've embraced and you see this as part of your identity, that you are part of this queer community.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#483 โ Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex
It's much easier to say you're gay than you are bi most often.