Julie King
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896 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2018
last heard Jun 2021
Julie King’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I'm just going to share some of them with you because I think it's helpful to hear the difference.
A parent might say to a child who hears thunder and gets really scared, oh, you look really scared.
what can be more helpful if we take out that word you and talk about what's making that child scared?
Oh, thunder can be scary.
It's so loud.
Can you hear the difference?
Or I can see how frustrating that is for you.
I mean, now it's making it sound like, well, normal people don't get frustrated, but something's wrong with you.
You get so frustrated, right?
So, you know, what could you say instead?
Oh,
steps to remember.
Or I hear this from parents, you must be so upset.
It's okay to cry.
What's more helpful would be to be much more specific.
It's upsetting to be left out of a friend's party.
It's a common thing that parents say, it's okay to cry.
It's okay to be sad.
I don't think we need to tell kids in words that it's okay to feel the way you feel.
Because by acknowledging their feelings, we're giving them that message much more effectively,
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