Julie King
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896 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2018
last heard Jun 2021
Julie King’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You know, what I said is it sounds like you wish that you could have more special time with me too.
You know, I don't want you to miss school today.
Let's think of when you and I can have special time.
You know, how about how about tonight w you know, we'll ask Daddy to put Rashi to bed so I can put you to bed and we can read some books together and we'll have some time together.
And that worked for her.
You know, I was lucky.
That worked for her in that moment.
Mm-hmm.
You know, again, I think that our first impulse is to try to explain to them why things are the way they are.
And I th and I think sometimes we also get triggered because we feel a little guilty.
Like why, you know, why at why is he getting more of my attention than she is?
Like maybe that's not fair, maybe I sh you know
But you know when you have more than one child that they have different needs at different times.
There were times when she needed more attention than he did, even if he, you know, overall probably got
You know, if we did a mathematical formula of of how much time he how much of my attention he got more than she did.
But you know, in each moment what I'm trying to figure out is who has what needs and and whose needs am I going to meet how and acknowledging that sometimes, you know, my daughter felt like I want more of your attention.
And not to deny it, you know, n uh
It's very powerful to say it sounds like you wish you had more of my attention.
So much more effective than saying, Look, honey, you know it can't be like this.
You know, if if I if I start by acknowledging the feelings
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