Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I wanted you to be more clear about it because everybody panicked and it happens, but the parents can be clear in
My expectation is this and this is why as opposed to saying you're not helping me.
That's usually what parents wanna say.
Parents wanna lash out because we are protective, we are mama bears at times, but that's not going to help the situation.
If you need to really lash out, I always encourage people to write it down in your journal exactly the way you want to say it, all the words you want to use, all the language you want to have.
And then leave it there because then you can use that information to have the calmer conversation because all your emotions matter.
If you need to get them out, I say get them out, but it's not always within the conversation when you're trying to strengthen the protocol around supporting yourself as a parent and supporting your child with the grandparents.
And if something like that happens, it's okay to take a break, you know, let the parents know, you know, we're just gonna go on a communication break.
for one day, for five days, whatever the case is, because we do need to regroup and refuel after things like that.
And it's okay to say that.
lot of times people are like, I have to power on, I have to be strong.
I'm an adult.
Adults need breaks too.
Grandparents need breaks.
Kids need break.
It's okay to take a break.
Yeah, well it's hard sometimes when you don't have your protocol that you would know you need that.
A lot of times we don't know what to do because we haven't articulated to ourselves.
If you get clear on your PAL system
I promise as you work through it, you will have more language to advocate for yourself, to advocate for your child, to build your relationship with the grandparents and the in laws.
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