Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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That is so hard just because it's it's just not needed.
That those kinds of conversations do not help.
And what I was often tell the parents are if you are going to a book study
Specifically around what's going on with your differently wired child, if you're going to a lecture, if you're watching a program.
No, any type of the education you're doing for yourself.
I would say invite the grandparent and this is the time when adult kids can appeal
to their own parents in the roles of parent child.
You know, if I was talking to my mom as an example, saying, you know, mom, I'm gonna go
to this lecture about ADHD and I would really like to have another lens on it.
I would love to have your parenting list.
And your grandparenting lens on this when I go, 'cause I'm looking at it from parent.
Will you attend with me?
And it's about our relationship together, our roles and our expertise.
No, it's about the child, but we're just talking about our role together.
So it's a small invitation on that.
And then when you have some common information in place, you've had this common learning experience.
if a grandparent was to say, Well, you know, you turned out well or back in my day this is the case
you have this reference point to go back to.
You have this conversation to say, well remember when we both heard this, or remember after the lecture we discussed this.
It's a nice place to recenter the conversation and have the grandparent do a self check before you will have to dive deeper in letting them know that one they potentially are wrong in what they're saying, they've hurt your feelings, they're not being supportive and this dismissiveness of what you're dealing with is very hurtful.
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