Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Because oftentimes we just need a touchstone to refer back to so that we can all stay on the same page around being this multi-generational family, however it looks, if the parents are g are caregivers, if there's actually a live in situation or there's more time being spent together in an interject intergenerational connection way.
But having these annual con commitments to look at the pet your pal system, form intentions, create a manifesto, create agreements or a mission statement.
really makes everybody have a seat at the table and that can include the grandchildren too, depending on the age.
because we really want the family to be communicating, to work together and to shift their values to be that we're all in this together and it's okay, however it looks.
It's going to be okay.
The biggest one I'll just start with out the gate is feeling like you're being judged.
I
that is a huge trigger in general and especially when it comes to parents trying to take care of their kids.
When you feel judged
I mean people can go from zen to complete
craze to thinker in seconds and it's because, you know, there's shame attached to it, there's that feeling that you're never gonna get it right and that people you admire or people you actually care about are judging you and that's just such a
you know, vulnerable cornered space to be in and nobody likes it.
So
When you think about triggers and you can talk about this and you're when you're creating your PAL plan, you can name your triggers.
I don't like being judged.
I don't like being em interrupted when I'm presenting new information about what's going on with my son and daughter.
I need you to wait at least a minute to ask additional questions because I'm thinking like any of those things that really set you off, like for me personally.
when I'm working with my in laws and my own parents in regards to the kids and they want to hear updates and all that, I always have to say
Let me get all the information out.
And then wait for me to ask you if there are any questions because I need to get all my thoughts out before we go into the discussion.
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