Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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when things go well, when things go uh, they're kind of okay and when they go completely what we would call a disaster, when oftentimes it's not, but we feel like it's a d disaster.
have a list of ways you can be assisted so you can be clear on those.
You can ask for them.
You don't have to scramble and you can feel better about getting the exact help that you need.
And then the L for love and learning, you have to love yourself.
You have to love what you're going through because this is new to you day to day.
Some things you have on lock, other things you're still learning, and connecting love with learning, you just give yourself permission to be a learner in those situations and to lean on your assistance and to have patience with yourself.
And when the parents go through this and they kind of create their own protocol around this.
They can then invite the grandparents in.
to create their own protocol and then they can cross-train the parent and the grandparent on what it means to be a palate to each other to fully support the entire family, to s support the role of grandparents and parents, and then of course ultimately to support the grandchild because everybody really is wanting to support the grandchild.
And oftentimes if we're not on the same blueprint around what that looks like again I mentioned it's chaos and it's not meant to be chaos, but that happens.
And I feel like when parents give themselves this full permission to use a PAL system, they can be vulnerable, they can be honest, and then they can be
clear about what they need so that it clears up more of the anger, confusion, disappointment or denial, and oftentimes fear.
I love your idea about writing writing the handbook, but to make it a little bit more simple
I do encourage families to have an annual time to, you know, reevaluate their PAL system.
as then together to set um a set of intentions for that calendar year.
Or maybe create a manifesto.
Like I love the Tilt Parenting Manifesto.
Maybe they can build upon that.
or to set us you know, create a set of agreements or a mission statement.
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