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Kate Murphy

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
674 total appearances

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10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

And another piece of that is when these people left the meditation space, people stayed in synchrony.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

When they measured them later, they were still synced up in their heart rate and their

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

neural patterns.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

So that just shows you that when people get together in social situations, and I use social situations meaning when people are just together in a room, what they're doing.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

But that's another piece of it is we started out talking about how you can build better interoception.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

But also when you do communal activities, you tend to sync up with the people who you're with, whether it's meditation or dancing or biking or whatever.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

But to rewind back to how to develop interoception, people who are athletes now, that's something that you can really build your interoception if you're not hooked up to a fitness tracker or if you're not listening to earbuds or listening to a book or something while you're running and you're really paying attention or walking or whatever you're doing for fitness.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

to really pay attention to your breath, to really pay attention to what your body's feeling like.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

We become so divorced from our bodies by things like fitness trackers and oral rings and all of these things where you're almost relying on technology to tell you how you're doing versus how you yourself feel and doing this internal survey or surveillance of yourself of how you're feeling.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

and also getting in touch with how your emotions feel within your body.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

A lot of people have a really hard time connecting because every emotion comes from a physical signature that your brain then interprets as that emotion.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

The way that you feel fear, Dan, is probably different in where I put my fear in my body.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

And to really think about when you're feeling these different emotions of where am I putting this?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Where does this go?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Do I feel it in my neck?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Do I have muscle tension in my back?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Does it make me feel cold?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Does it make me feel hot?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

To really get to know yourself and those different emotions.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

And once you become conscious of that, you're able to, when you're interacting with another person, when you are embodying those signals that are coming from them, you're able to then interpret that within your own body, which...