Kathryn Gordon

And Catherine, the difference that you made for me and helped setting me up for success and that date up for success was something so powerful. I wanted to share it with my listeners.

Oh my gosh. And guys, so many people will say that to me. Oh, you should just read this book, read this book. This literally, I dropped everything and went and read Relationship Brit immediately. It's such an easy read. I read it in, I think it was two hours, right? It's not hard to read. The format, number one, is super cool.

Oh my gosh. And guys, so many people will say that to me. Oh, you should just read this book, read this book. This literally, I dropped everything and went and read Relationship Brit immediately. It's such an easy read. I read it in, I think it was two hours, right? It's not hard to read. The format, number one, is super cool.

Oh my gosh. And guys, so many people will say that to me. Oh, you should just read this book, read this book. This literally, I dropped everything and went and read Relationship Brit immediately. It's such an easy read. I read it in, I think it was two hours, right? It's not hard to read. The format, number one, is super cool.

And by the way, this episode right now is for anyone that maybe you're going on a first date. Maybe you're in a relationship. Maybe you've been married for 50 years, Catherine, because I know you shared with me an older woman that really got some massive wisdom that shifted her relationship. This is for anyone that's in any type of romantic relationship, correct? But hold on.

And by the way, this episode right now is for anyone that maybe you're going on a first date. Maybe you're in a relationship. Maybe you've been married for 50 years, Catherine, because I know you shared with me an older woman that really got some massive wisdom that shifted her relationship. This is for anyone that's in any type of romantic relationship, correct? But hold on.

And by the way, this episode right now is for anyone that maybe you're going on a first date. Maybe you're in a relationship. Maybe you've been married for 50 years, Catherine, because I know you shared with me an older woman that really got some massive wisdom that shifted her relationship. This is for anyone that's in any type of romantic relationship, correct? But hold on.

It's not just for that.

It's not just for that.

It's not just for that.

Well, I'll tell you, I needed this book 20 something years ago because I, Some of it, and I just want to jump right in. First of all, at the back of the book, there's a Catherine shares 11 tips on how to have a great relationship. And then John does the same, you know, one from a male perspective and one from female, both super valuable and right to the point.

Well, I'll tell you, I needed this book 20 something years ago because I, Some of it, and I just want to jump right in. First of all, at the back of the book, there's a Catherine shares 11 tips on how to have a great relationship. And then John does the same, you know, one from a male perspective and one from female, both super valuable and right to the point.

Well, I'll tell you, I needed this book 20 something years ago because I, Some of it, and I just want to jump right in. First of all, at the back of the book, there's a Catherine shares 11 tips on how to have a great relationship. And then John does the same, you know, one from a male perspective and one from female, both super valuable and right to the point.

And so I remember one of the things he said to me was don't forget to like drill down on those points, you know, before you go in there and keep them fresh in your mind. So to be funny, I brought them with me, you know, on the date. And so he and I were reading them together and like going through them.

And so I remember one of the things he said to me was don't forget to like drill down on those points, you know, before you go in there and keep them fresh in your mind. So to be funny, I brought them with me, you know, on the date. And so he and I were reading them together and like going through them.

And so I remember one of the things he said to me was don't forget to like drill down on those points, you know, before you go in there and keep them fresh in your mind. So to be funny, I brought them with me, you know, on the date. And so he and I were reading them together and like going through them.

But what was interesting was, and this maybe you're going to be like, oh gosh, Heather, no wonder why you never have successful relationships. Number four, don't compete. And I understand now having read your book, of course, don't compete with someone you're in a relationship. However, my entire life in relationships, I competed. To me, again, I'm just, I'm not perfect. I'm far from it.

But what was interesting was, and this maybe you're going to be like, oh gosh, Heather, no wonder why you never have successful relationships. Number four, don't compete. And I understand now having read your book, of course, don't compete with someone you're in a relationship. However, my entire life in relationships, I competed. To me, again, I'm just, I'm not perfect. I'm far from it.

But what was interesting was, and this maybe you're going to be like, oh gosh, Heather, no wonder why you never have successful relationships. Number four, don't compete. And I understand now having read your book, of course, don't compete with someone you're in a relationship. However, my entire life in relationships, I competed. To me, again, I'm just, I'm not perfect. I'm far from it.

I don't know why I did that. I thought it was funny. I thought it was fun. I thought it was a game. Whatever it was, to me, I wanted to be the fastest. I wanted to be the one maybe that grabbed the build. Whatever stupid thing it was, I wanted to win. And because of these tips, because of this book, and because of him and I discussing it, That day, something came up. I forget what it was.