Kelly

Uh, no. So I think Russell just reiterate a couple of things. He said that we're the best. We're, you know, don't ask them how they're doing and don't, um, ask them what you can do because they're so overwhelmed and nobody wants to tell somebody, here's the things that I need you to do. It's just a weird thing to say. And, um,

don't the biggest one is don't make them make you feel better yep everybody else's emotions are exhausting especially during a time like this they are exhausting and so to have to make them you know if you go sit over there and you're boohooed and bawling and crying and all that excuse me they have to take care of you and tell you how they're going to be okay and how it's going to be okay and that's not beneficial to them at all and it's it's it's just exhausting um

don't the biggest one is don't make them make you feel better yep everybody else's emotions are exhausting especially during a time like this they are exhausting and so to have to make them you know if you go sit over there and you're boohooed and bawling and crying and all that excuse me they have to take care of you and tell you how they're going to be okay and how it's going to be okay and that's not beneficial to them at all and it's it's it's just exhausting um

don't the biggest one is don't make them make you feel better yep everybody else's emotions are exhausting especially during a time like this they are exhausting and so to have to make them you know if you go sit over there and you're boohooed and bawling and crying and all that excuse me they have to take care of you and tell you how they're going to be okay and how it's going to be okay and that's not beneficial to them at all and it's it's it's just exhausting um

frank talk i had a couple that set or that was our next door neighbor at the time when i was diagnosed and they invited me over for coffee sat down and they're like all right tell us everything about it because most people don't want to know or they don't you know they don't know how to say just tell us everything and it was very cathartic for me to be able to sit down and pour out everything that was going on because most people just want to give platitudes well-meaning but still platitudes so just be frank and honest about it because trust me they already know what's going on

frank talk i had a couple that set or that was our next door neighbor at the time when i was diagnosed and they invited me over for coffee sat down and they're like all right tell us everything about it because most people don't want to know or they don't you know they don't know how to say just tell us everything and it was very cathartic for me to be able to sit down and pour out everything that was going on because most people just want to give platitudes well-meaning but still platitudes so just be frank and honest about it because trust me they already know what's going on

frank talk i had a couple that set or that was our next door neighbor at the time when i was diagnosed and they invited me over for coffee sat down and they're like all right tell us everything about it because most people don't want to know or they don't you know they don't know how to say just tell us everything and it was very cathartic for me to be able to sit down and pour out everything that was going on because most people just want to give platitudes well-meaning but still platitudes so just be frank and honest about it because trust me they already know what's going on

So it's not like you're going to tiptoe around it cause you don't want to say the wrong thing. They're very well aware.

So it's not like you're going to tiptoe around it cause you don't want to say the wrong thing. They're very well aware.

So it's not like you're going to tiptoe around it cause you don't want to say the wrong thing. They're very well aware.

Oh, trust. I had a whole group of people that I was like, this is so demented, but it's how I processed it. That's right. Yeah, 100%. Nothing is right or wrong. Whatever it takes for them to process it is what matters.

Oh, trust. I had a whole group of people that I was like, this is so demented, but it's how I processed it. That's right. Yeah, 100%. Nothing is right or wrong. Whatever it takes for them to process it is what matters.

Oh, trust. I had a whole group of people that I was like, this is so demented, but it's how I processed it. That's right. Yeah, 100%. Nothing is right or wrong. Whatever it takes for them to process it is what matters.

All right, so we got this from Jenny in New Carlisle, Ohio, and she writes, I was listening to the show, as I always do, when you were talking about if they will tell this story at my funeral. I laughed and smiled and thought, man, that is such a dad thing to say. As the mom of a four and seven-year-old with a husband who is always thinking of fun, I find myself being the stealer of joy.

All right, so we got this from Jenny in New Carlisle, Ohio, and she writes, I was listening to the show, as I always do, when you were talking about if they will tell this story at my funeral. I laughed and smiled and thought, man, that is such a dad thing to say. As the mom of a four and seven-year-old with a husband who is always thinking of fun, I find myself being the stealer of joy.

All right, so we got this from Jenny in New Carlisle, Ohio, and she writes, I was listening to the show, as I always do, when you were talking about if they will tell this story at my funeral. I laughed and smiled and thought, man, that is such a dad thing to say. As the mom of a four and seven-year-old with a husband who is always thinking of fun, I find myself being the stealer of joy.

So later that week, we had a ton of rain, and on the way home, my husband was finding puddles to drive through as the kids were loving the splash that occurred. As we were approaching the puddle, the kids rolled down their windows. By the way, Kelly speaking, that's giving me anxiety.

So later that week, we had a ton of rain, and on the way home, my husband was finding puddles to drive through as the kids were loving the splash that occurred. As we were approaching the puddle, the kids rolled down their windows. By the way, Kelly speaking, that's giving me anxiety.

So later that week, we had a ton of rain, and on the way home, my husband was finding puddles to drive through as the kids were loving the splash that occurred. As we were approaching the puddle, the kids rolled down their windows. By the way, Kelly speaking, that's giving me anxiety.

Everything inside of me hated it, but I laughed, smiled, and found joy in theirs as they stuck their heads out and were drenched by the splash. Water was all over our car, inside and out, and they asked us to do it again. We turned around multiple times doing the same thing as they laughed continuously.