Keolani Young

So perfect example.

If you have a really similar chart to someone else, you're probably going to have in some ways less friction because there's innate understanding.

If you are dating another manny gen who has a really similar channels to yours, it's like, oh my God,

You're like a different version of me.

We like doing things together.

We think in this way.

You can encounter unexpected problems there where you're like, oh my God, this person is too similar.

But in general, there's this understanding.

Now, if you start dating someone who has a very different chart to yours, say they are a manifester with a closed aura, something that could be really challenging in that relationship is feeling like you can't read them.

You can't read their energy.

And what I love about the manifestors in my life is that they're the ones who have helped me be more confident just being myself because I couldn't perform for them because I couldn't read what they were wanting.

So I couldn't shapeshift and be that.

Interesting.

It was a really interesting thing where I noticed, this was before I even knew about human design, but there were certain people I was around that I just couldn't get a read on them.

I couldn't figure out who they were.

I couldn't really read their emotions.

And then later, of course, years later found out, did their charts, their manifestors.

I'm like, oh my God, you have this closed aura.

And there's something really beautiful about that because they want you to be your full self and you kind of have to be your full self.

And so if you struggle with self-confidence,