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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
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Chapter 2: What is Human Design and how does it work?
Hey, y'all. Welcome back to Made It Out. Today I'm here with Kehlani Young, who is a very good friend of mine and also a human design expert. Thank you for having me. Oh my God, I'm so excited. We've been talking about doing this for forever. Let's start with what the fuck is human design?
Yeah, yeah. Human design is a system for self-awareness. Similar to astrology, you enter your birth information, you receive a chart that looks absolutely crazy. And if you go down the rabbit hole, it helps you really deeply understand yourself and others.
I love hanging out with you because you like memorize people's charts. It's like really impressive. All of our friends will be like, oh, yeah, duh, that's because she's this and she's this. And it's so fun because I'll be like, oh, my God, this happened to me. And you're like, oh, yeah, well, that makes total sense. Like you have this. So I'm really excited about today's conversation.
Can we talk just a very, very briefly about the difference between astrology and human design?
So human design actually incorporates Western astrology. It's a synthesis of a few different systems, including the I Ching, Kabbalah, astrology. And so if you look in your chart, depending on what chart generator you're using, it will show these little zodiac signs next to these placements. So it incorporates astrology, but it just takes it so much deeper, but I actually use both systems.
So I do astrology as well, but human design is my preferred because it looks like this mechanical map of you. And it was the thing that I think created so much resonance for me when I was on the self-awareness journey. And I was like, oh my God, I think Now I'm finally starting to understand who I truly am and getting context for all the things that are already happening in my life.
So I always say when it comes to readings, I've never told anyone anything new about themselves. It's always a validation of what their experience already is. And I'm able to reflect that back to them as a stranger, not knowing anything about their life. So it's really powerful and really validating.
Okay, before we get started, we put the link in the show notes for Kehlani's website. Can you tell them what to go do?
Yes. So it'll be at kehlaniyoung.com or link in bio. Top of the page there, you can generate your human design chart and then scroll down and learn about your type, your authority for decision-making, a little brief introduction to your profile, and it will give you a little synopsis of your energy type, how you interact with energy, what your aura is doing, and what your natural gifts are.
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Chapter 3: What are the different Human Design types and their characteristics?
How do you know it's the right thing to do? That is where I think human design really serves people.
Yeah. And I will say, like, I get asked a lot, what helps you follow your gut? I think things like this, like obviously practical things like meditation and journaling, but also these tools that help you really understand yourself and be like, oh, OK, maybe there is a science or a reason why I am the way I am.
I feel like it's been easier for me to trust my instincts because I have this like kind of background info of like, oh, yeah, if this feels this certain way or if I'm feeling pulled in this certain direction. maybe I should just trust that.
Yeah. That is, for me, was the hardest thing is self-trust because we have so much external information and conditioning telling us to make the logical choice. We're, I think, pressured to make very mental choices that sound good on paper, but it's not always right for us. Yeah. Do you want to dig into that a little bit with the last few months? Yeah. We had talked about this.
And like, I think when we had first talked about your design, did this initial reading, we talked about making decisions that align with your sacral energy. And You're an emotional type. So your authority is kind of the inner CEO that helps you actually make those final decisions.
You might have a physical sacral response to something, but you're not really designed to decide in the moment as an emotional type. And I have emotional authority as well. We want to wait for a feeling of clarity, a feeling of peace, going back a few months because this all happened like what in the last 90 days or something.
It sounded like feeling this sense of something isn't quite right, like something is needing to change. And I would love to dig into a little bit more like in real life. What does it actually feel like to notice dissatisfaction, to notice something is off? Like how did that manifest for you?
I think I definitely felt quieter, slower, more unsure of myself, just like in every decision that I was making. I think especially when it came to like the business and work, it just was like like I was kind of crawling through mud and like nothing that I was doing was really clicking together. I felt heavy.
Those are really big signs. If you are a generator or a mani gen, if you have emotional authority as well, anyone listening to this. heaviness, that's really for all types. You are feeling like a sluggishness, a heaviness, something's not quite right. And for you specifically, feeling like you are quieter and slower, that is the opposite of what we really want to see with a mani-gen.
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Chapter 4: What are the benefits of understanding your Human Design chart?
And there's something really beautiful about that because they want you to be your full self and you kind of have to be your full self. And so if you struggle with self-confidence, If you struggle with fawning, like I did, shape-shifting and not even realizing you're doing it, a manifester, being in a relationship with them can trigger things and be a catalyst for incredible healing.
But it's going to be a journey.
It's triggering. I've noticed that in my relationships. I want you to tell me what is going on. Tell me what you are feeling. Tell me who you are. And sometimes I think that can be threatening in a way that I don't realize that it is.
Yeah.
Do you know what I mean?
Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. It brings up everything. Relationships bring up so much. Running a business, because I work mostly with business owners and I always say it's like getting a black belt in self-awareness. All of your challenges, all of your insecurities, everything's going to come up if you have survival fears. If you grew up broke like I did, you're going to be navigating uncertainty.
You're going to be getting this black belt. And so it feels really cool and amazing because you're like, wow, I'm really becoming the best version of myself and the most confident. And you are forced to trust yourself.
And I think in relationships, especially romantic relationships, but even close friendships, it's an opportunity to understand yourself more deeply, understand the other person in respecting those differences. If someone has a defined personality, head and Ajna center, they're going to have a really consistent way of thinking. And for you and I, we both have undefined head and Ajna centers.
Our gift is being open-minded. We're open-minded. We can see things from many different perspectives. We might go, God, you're so fixed. You're so stubborn, man. You just always have to think this way or that way, or you're so opinionated. That's who they're designed to be. That's their gift. They're bringing a different gift to the table. They're bringing different energy.
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Chapter 5: How does Human Design help during times of transition?
Mm hmm.
creating more content not worrying about like am I saying this the exact right way to make sure that like it's very clear that can just be such an energy leak. So I'm really working on the energy leaks that I notice where I'm doing this to myself. I've created a story around the way I need to operate and it actually doesn't feel good or satisfying.
So I'm essentially just working on releasing those mental stories around the way I need to do things.
And is that through action? Yeah.
Action always precedes the clarity. As a generator, when I notice the signpost of satisfaction, that's pointing me in the right direction as well. So it's not like we're totally flying blind. We just start to notice, oh, this is really energizing. Oh, this is really engaging. Like I'm starting to do more podcasts and I'm coming on here and this is such a fun opportunity.
And there's other things like that where I can tell from the physical response that I'm really in this. I want to be a part of this. I want to do this. I feel more social than I have before. You know, in the last couple of years, I'm moving to a new place. Like we kind of had a very different experience, but similar with moving where it all just happened really fast. The perfect place came up.
It was through a friend of a friend. And then boom, like in a matter of weeks, I'm moving and had no plans to move.
No plans to move. Like a week later, she's like, yeah, I'm moving.
Yeah. And it was like the perfect little house. We're moving in a few days. Everything's just been so seamless. It could have been chaotic, I guess, having no plans to move and suddenly everything's changing and right around the holidays as well. But everything's been so seamless because we are just following the flow. Yeah.
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